“I’m so uncomfortable in front of the camera!”—I hear this all the time, and trust me, you’re not alone! It’s completely normal to feel a bit awkward when all eyes (and a big camera lens) are on you. Add in the pressure of wanting perfect wedding photos, and it’s easy to overthink the whole thing. But don’t worry—relaxing in front of the camera is totally possible, and I’m here to help make it effortless and fun!

Here are my top five tips to help you feel at ease on your big day.

1. Get Comfortable with Your Photographer

One of the best ways to relax in front of the camera is to feel comfortable with the person behind it. That’s why I always try to meet couples in person before the wedding—we can chat, connect, and get to know each other a little. Feeling like you can trust your photographer is key to feeling relaxed on the day.

If you’d like a little extra practice, consider booking a pre-wedding shoot. It’s a great way to experience the process before the big day, so you’ll know exactly what to expect. But don’t worry—my style isn’t about stiff posing or forced smiles. I focus on telling the story of your day naturally, so you can just enjoy the moment!

2. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera

Your wedding day isn’t a photoshoot—it’s a celebration of your love. The best photos happen when you’re simply enjoying the moment, not worrying about the camera. Try to stay present—hold hands, whisper something funny, or just take a deep breath together. I promise, you’ll look amazing just by being yourselves!

I once photographed a couple on their favourite beach in Cornwall. They were excited but nervous about having their photos taken in public. Once we got to the beach, the nerves melted away as they focused on each other and soaked in the moment. By the end, they told me how much fun they had and were surprised at how easy it felt. That’s the magic of just being in the moment!

3. Keep Moving & Stay Natural

Stiff, overly posed photos aren’t my thing, and I’m guessing they’re not yours either! Movement helps create natural, relaxed images, so instead of standing frozen in one position, we’ll keep things flowing. Walking, twirling, laughing together—these simple actions help you feel at ease and make the photos feel authentic.

There will be moments when I’ll guide you into a pose, but don’t worry, I’ll never make you hold anything awkward for too long. My goal is to keep things fun and relaxed, so you’ll barely notice the camera!

4. Plan for a Stress-Free Day

Weddings can be overwhelming—there’s a lot to think about, and you might feel like you need to manage everything. But on the day, the best thing you can do is let go of the little details and just enjoy yourself.

If possible, delegate tasks to your wedding party or venue coordinator so you’re not worrying about logistics. And when it comes to photos, give yourself more time than you think you’ll need. That way, you won’t feel rushed, and we can capture amazing moments without pressure. I always work efficiently to keep things flowing, so you can get back to celebrating!

5. Embrace the Moment & Have Fun!

At the end of the day, your wedding isn’t about perfect poses—it’s about celebrating your love with the people who matter most. The more fun you have, the better your photos will be! Laugh, dance, and enjoy every second. Your joy and excitement will shine through, and that’s what makes for the best, most meaningful images.

Final Thoughts

Relaxing in front of the camera comes down to feeling comfortable and enjoying the moment. I hope these tips help you feel more at ease about your wedding photos! If you love the idea of capturing beautiful memories but feel a little anxious about posing, let’s have a chat. I promise—you won’t regret having the photos, and I guarantee you’ll actually enjoy the experience!